"fix your face, you look like a blown up bull frog" she said

We all tend to walk about with these ridiculous negative thoughts about ourselves....

I remember as a teenager wearing specs, it was these rather big squariesh fashion (1970's) things not like we have today, elegant, streamlined or even contacts.  A teacher one day said to me," oh come on fix your face, you look like a blown up bull frog".  just because i was angry about something.  well, after that I stopped wearing my specs for a long time, because I had this hang up about how I looked.

Its took me a long time to realise, that what actually is important iswhat I think of me, myself and I, and when people are hurtful and say things to hurt others its because they themselves hurt inside, they themselves have hangups and insecurities.

Today, Im no teenager any longer, and heck I like who I am, where there are imperfections...there are ways to cover them up to actually show off the beauty, the amazing me..(no one will say i'm amazing, so i'm saying it *smiles*)

I challenge you today, make a list of all your imperfections, your hang ups, those negative thoughts that are holding you back ....then dump them or burn them or flush it down the loo...GONE and never to return.

Does it matter what others think of us? No

Does it matter what we think of ourselves YES.  when we are positive, believe in ourselves, we attract the positive to us, life becomes exciting, we see the beauty around us, we notice those that need a smile as we walk by....when we all negative we push people away and then thats why they only see the ugly.

Today you can have the power in your own hands to grasp the truth about WHO you are.  You are special, loved by God and carefully creatively designed, unique, a one of a kind.  Priceless and treasured.

Grab hold of that thought, believe it, its yours, given freely.

Blessings...and time to share my cuppa with you