Do you drive a car? Can you remember when you did your first hill start?

The learning process

In the process of finding ourselves, we need to realise, its no plain sailing or getting in the car and going, there are the rules we need to learn, understand the directions, under stand the basics of the upkeep of a cars engine, interior and exterior, we then pass the learner stage, and finally pass the test to drive our vehicle on the road.  

Similarly is our life and relationships skills. 
We have to first unlearn bad habits then learn how to relate properly. It will feels strange at first, we fail a few times, get it right on some occasions, but remember that practice makes perfect. Communicating, sharing and being willing to work on (like a car service) our relationship with ourselves and with others is vital to ensure all the cogs are working insync. 

Hope you keeping up with your hourly journal, remember, change is not easy, keep those tissues close by, but once you get it right..start the engine, keep it in neutral for a while just until you ready for the next gear change.

Until next time...remember you are important to yourself first and then to others...

1. oh! let me share some me humor on this topic...when I feel im not  good enough or going thru a ruff patch emotionally, I apply my reddest lipstick, look at myself in the mirror, and say, "hi sexy...i think you are just oh so cute," pout my lips and say "mamma loves you" then give myself a kiss myself in the mirror and walk away....when I think of this action I have such a good laugh at myself, but heck, why not!

Blessings...and here is sharing my cuppa and some me humor with you